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what I get after a period fighting?
as people says, I get what I want! So I put all I get on a white sheet, look at them carefully, I got a little bean, a broken jar and some clay...so i ask myself why? why i got these? I searched my soul for the reason, a strong voice telling, boy, that because what you want is all about.

People usually get what they want, if you want to done perfect then you can, if you want to cheat yourself then you get, and if you want to run away, you will running.
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what you want then you will fight and get what you want, and it will reflect the way you thinking for the next and affect the way you making a choice for the next step, soonly, it will beome your experience. So, I told myself never play yourself and others, never do cheating, don't run instead of stay and fight! You can be pushed back but not means you are back, you may be beat down but that not means you are be beaten, but if you run first, then you start running, and the second time, you will running easily, the third time, problems seems stronger than ever, and running seems the best way for you, forth time, you admit you are weak, fifth, you alow yourself running.......then, you become no choice but run!

what should do
get yourself fresh, get foods, get rest, get activises, you've been told yourself in dangerous, and you, only you can become the hero who save yourself. calm now is what the heart needed, go to a park, or walking around lake, then talking to yourself, tell him, I want to be good, I want happy, I want to be successed, but kindly, patiently. get yourself listen to your inner voice, let him to be your guide, let him happy, let him growing.

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Healing A Broken Heart
Four essentials for those suffering from heartbreak

by A.K. Boyle
Published: 09/21/2006

It's hard to say if there are more songs, poems and movies written about the ecstasy of falling in love… or the agony of breaking up. No one relishes nursing a broken heart back to health, but it's something everyone who's ever loved will have to do at some point. And while I can't say it gets any easier, there are a few measures you can take to help make the process of moving on move along.

Time (but not too much time)
First of all, acknowledge that what you are going through is hard. When you're in love, your body develops a chemical addiction to the other person, and the withdrawal is both painful and necessary. Give yourself permission to grieve. However, if you allow yourself to dwell on the difficulty of the break-up, you just replace one addiction with another, this one much less enjoyable. Make a serious effort to involve yourself in projects and activities, and immerse yourself in other people. Talk to your friends about the break-up, but talk to them about other things, too. Even if you don't want to, forcing yourself to get out and concentrate on other things will get you on the right track to feeling like yourself again.

Letting go
You will never get over him if you let yourself daydream about getting back together. Delete him from your cell phone, and don't even think about clicking on his myspace profile. It's a good idea to get rid of everything that reminds you of him to help yourself realize that that phase in your life is over. Depending on the length and closeness of the relationship, some people find that moving helps them make a clean break and a new start. If that isn't an option, rearrange the furniture, redecorate your walls -- anything you can do to symbolize moving on will help you make the transition. It's time to start a new era, with new memories and new possibilities.

Getting it out
Relationships leave trails of unresolved issues, questions and feelings their wake. But it isn't always possible to talk to achieve closure with the other person. Nonetheless, it's important that you express what you think and feel; working through those questions is a big part of leaving them behind you. Put them on paper. It doesn't matter if it's in a journal or a letter, but sometimes addressing your thoughts to your ex can help you achieve more cathartic value. After you've spent all of your anger, confusion or guilt, look at what you've written. If after you've exhausted your pen or keyboard you still feel like it's something you still really need him to know, consider sending it. First, edit any accusations or sections that are too emotionally charged -- you don't want to send anything you'll regret later -- and make sure it reads as an honest letter that isn't asking for a response. Once you've sent your thoughts, frustrations and explanations, you can feel certain that you've said what you needed to say and move on.

Friendship can wait
No calls. No sightings. No friendship. You need at least three months with absolutely no contact before you can even think about starting a friendship, and it often takes much longer. There's no such thing as "staying friends." You were not friends when you were dating, and if you were friends before, it ended the moment you became intimately involved. If you want to start a friendship now, realize that it will be an entirely new relationship that must be built from the ground up. You'll share a different kind of bond, have different kinds of conversations and play different roles in each other's lives. It may be true that once we love someone, we love them forever, but it cannot be in the same way if you hope to have an honest friendship and an honest chance at moving on.



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Prince Charming: Overrated

Contrary to the fairy tale, this magic man is not all he's cracked up to be!
by Lisa WesemanPublished: 09/14/2006

From Cinderella to Pretty Woman, fairy tales for females are almost always centered around one figure: Prince Charming. Whether he's a knight in shining amour riding a white horse or a millionaire in a tuxedo riding in a stretch limousine, Prince Charming always saves the girl.
As much as you may try to resist the temptation, even modern women sometimes fall into the trap of waiting around to be rescued by the perfect man. But if you take a step back and look at what Prince Charming represents, you may be surprised by how overrated he really is.
Looks are overratedChiseled cheeks, perfect hair and a smile that melts your heart: Prince Charming is the definition of handsome.
There's nothing wrong with a man who's easy on the eyes, but at the end of the day, looks will only carry a man - and a relationship - so far.
As our culture becomes increasingly bent on the idea of the so-called "metrosexual male" - a straight man who follows fashion and pays careful attention to grooming - we have to ask ourselves what's really important. It's nice to see men finally taking care of those bushy unibrows, but are looks really the thing we should be encouraging men - or women - to devote more time, money and energy toward?
Money is overratedThere's a reason Prince Charming rides up on that white horse or in a stretch limo: he's loaded. Most fairy tales date back to a time when a one of the most important factors in marriage was a man's financial means.
While women today don't so openly pursue wealth in a partner, it's still something they consider. Many women judge a man on everything from his level of education and his career to the kind of car he drives and whether he owns a home. Some women even tell their boyfriends not to propose to them until he can afford a large diamond engagement ring.
But when women pursue money in this way, what are they giving up in return?
If you're a woman who chases wealth through a partner, are you merely using yourself as an object that can be sold for the right price?
Chivalry is overratedPrince Charming did more than open doors for his lady - he slayed dragons at her feet. But is chivalry really that important in this day and age?
Most men are genuinely trying to be considerate when they open doors, pay for dinner or drive the car. The problem comes from why men started doing these things in the first place: because they thought women were weaker and needed their help.
Everyone likes to be taken care of every now and then. But before you get your heart set on a chivalrous Prince Charming, carefully consider whether you believe that as a woman you always need to be taken care of by a man.
Be Princess CharmingFrom the time you were a little girl, you heard stories about Prince Charming. Throughout the years, he's shaped your idea of what a man should be. But you spent so much time thinking about that Prince, your probably neglected to even consider yourself.
Now that you're an adult, you still might be secretly waiting for Prince Charming to show up. He's not going to. The truth is, Prince Charming isn't real.
But that doesn't mean you can't still have a magical life. The first step is to stop waiting around for the man of your dreams -- it's time to shift your focus to becoming the woman of your dreams. Think about all the things you hope for in a husband. When the right man comes along, are you prepared to offer those things as a wife? And what if you aren't going to meet your partner for a long time - are you prepared to offer those things for yourself?
Now is the time for you to become your own Princess Charming. Develop your career. Learn to grow your own money. Get into shape. Work on your mental health. Stimulate your mind. Learn a new skill. See the world.
When you finally do meet your soul mate, you'll be able to stand at his level and meet him as a peer. And until then, you'll be living the rich, full life a Princess deserves.

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